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Metafiler responses to: "How Do You Choose a Life Partner?"

By Joe Katzman at 04:19

Always interesting to see the responses....

My answer. Working, so far.


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June 17, 2008

Last Night - Marriage For All In California

By Armed Liberal at 19:16

Same-sex marriages began in California. I'm not enthralled with the process that got us here, and I don't think the last show has dropped on this.

But I think that once people begin to see the impact - to see, and I hope accept the fact that the loving couple next door is both male or both female - that some of the heat will go out of this issue.

My position is simple. Stable nuclear families are the best form of social organization this society has to offer, and any change that allows there to be more of them is a good thing.

If you want to know why, read this old post.

Congratulations to the new couples, and welcome to the joyful hard work of marriage.


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February 11, 2006

Artistic courage and Valentine's Day

By Donald Sensing at 21:38
Yehudit writes that since the cartoons and riots therefrom,

There is no risk in mocking politicians, now matter how intensively the abuse is served. There is no risk in mocking any establishments of American or Western culture- no harm will ensue. ... Every artist alive today now knows the limits: you can do this, which is as brave as taunting a stuffed teddy bear, or you can do that, which amounts to taunting a very hungry very uncaged bear. Bravery, to an artist, is now an all or nothing thing. Leave the repressive regimes alone, and all your efforts, no matter how avante garde, provocative, or just plain offensive your work is, and you are just pretending at courage. Cross the line and say something about Islam, and your life is one the line.

Quite so, but there is a problem: Muslims keep redefining what is objectionable. They "dumb down" offensiveness. Such as Valentine Cards: A radical Kashmiri Islamic group, Dukhtaran-e-Millat, sent nearly two dozen black-veiled Muslim women to burn Valentine's Day cards and posters showing couples together in the main city of India's Kashmir. They women protested that the day imposes Western values on Muslim youth.
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October 28, 2005

Perpetual Peace Continued

By Dan Darling at 05:11

In his commentary on my discussion of democracy, terrorism, and perpetual peace, Eric addresses my contention about the appeal of Islamic terrorism in Europe:

Regarding the genesis of terrorist groups, "fully formed," in Western-style democracy, is this really crucial to the discussion? First, there is time for just such a growth - as many of these movements and ideologies are relatively new to the landscape of the region (western democracies) – so it is not beyond the pale that we might see some in the near future. If the attitudes and inclinations can be found in local populations to join these existing groups, it is more than feasible that at some point there will also be the initiative to form new ones.

It's a fair criticism, though I think that there needs to be some discussion of the forms that Islamic terrorism takes in Europe. With several notable exceptions such as the GIA bombings in France during the mid-1990s, 3/11, and the London bombings, the vast majority of the terrorist activity that occurs in Europe is essentially that of infrastructure - propaganda, recruiting, financing, and so on. This is one of the reasons why there's been so much apathy among the various European governments as far as acting against said groups: as long as their attentions were directed against distant foreign lands, most European authorities with the exception of the French (due to the bombings in Paris mentioned earlier) saw little reason to move against them pre-9/11.


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July 16, 2005

Love at a Distance

By Joe Katzman at 07:03

Let's talk about love. Not the fairy-tale kind or empty platitudes, but real love, and real stories. Got a story of your own, or an URL worth visitng? Use the comments or drop us a line via "lovestories", here @ windsofchange.net. Lots of room for Guest Blogs.

Speaking of which, one regular reader writes poetry as well as D-Day Guest Blogs, and wanted to share this one with us. Anyone who has ever had their love far away (and these days, there are quite a few) will understand:

Miles and miles
between us:
other lives, stories
towns, hills
rivers, moonlight
Then this feeling
of wanting
of something missing
of not being whole
It is late
you are asleep
but still I sit here
weaving a net of words
trying to capture
a dream


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July 2, 2005

Noah at DefenseTech Pulls the Trigger

By Joe Katzman at 01:32

Noah Shachtman of DefenseTech.org:

"I met Elizabeth Visceglia in 1997, and fell in love with her approximately two hours later. Last week, on a sugary beach on Mexico's Caribbean coast, I finally worked up the guts and good sense to ask her to marry me."

Good sense, indeed. Congrats to the happy couple.


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June 18, 2005

Aikido, Love, and Dance

By Guest Author at 03:08

By Jinderella

RE: Aikido Wisdom: The Source of Excellence

I got a friend whose japanese is much better than mine to translate
this love poem (from chizumatic) for den-beste-sama.

Atsui manazashi mo yakusoku no kotoba mo
(hot) (passionate?) looks and promises (language) and

Umai kisu mo koi ni wa iranai
good (talented? delicious?) kisses and love (passion) don't need

I don't need passionate looks, promises, kisses or love.

Aoi sora wo mite "Kirei da ne" to ieru
blue sky, looking at, "it is pretty" it can be said that

The sky above is beautiful

Kimi no soboku-sa suki yo
your simplicity (naivete?) like

I like the simpleness in you

Nanige naku me ga aeba Ki-mazukute shita wo muku
Innocently eyes meet Awkward looking down

Our gazes meet and we look away, uncomfortable


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June 11, 2005

Effort, Honour, and Love: Spasiba

By Joe Katzman at 01:33

This Saturday, Jack Kelly of IrishPennants.com offers us a story about love, purpose, the American dream, and courage. Thank you, Alexey Gvenetadze, for refusing to quit. Thank you, too, Elena, for understanding what matters.

In a similar vein, I have a story about an asthmatic Philadephia kid who never quit until he became what he most wanted to be... then one day, what he wanted changed in an instant. He, too, began on a new path in an foreign world - and succeeded. What does a racehorse named "Silky Sullivan" have to do with both stories? Read and find out.


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May 27, 2005

Your Own Time Machine - And How to Use It

By Joe Katzman at 00:22

Dr. Jack Wheeler runs To The Point News, described as "An Oasis for Rational Conservatives." One of my favourite aspects of TTPN is its articles that go beyond the political 'stuff' to help readers improve their lives. Like this one:

"Last week was the 13th birthday of my youngest son, Jackson. One evening a few days before, I was engrossed in writing on the computer when my wife reminded me it was Jackson's bedtime. He was in bed reading, waiting for me to kiss him goodnight....

...There will come a time – and terribly sooner than I would realize – when I would give anything to have Jackson down the hall, in his room, waiting for me to come and kiss him goodnight. I would give anything to have a time machine, to be able to come back in time to just this moment right now, to be able to have him there in his bed in his room, to kiss him good night just one more time.

I was immobilized by these thoughts. Then I realized that I did have a time machine of sorts...."

A brilliant point follows, one that can save relationships and make a huge difference in our real lives beyond the blogs and the issues of the day.


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May 26, 2005

Cold Hottie

By Joe Katzman at 02:55

Mrs. Cold FuryI'm sure a number of our readers are familiar with Mike Hendrix of Cold Fury, the aircraft lovin', guitar-playin', bike-ridin', blues singin', idiotarian-stompin', "harshing your mellow since 9/01" tower of guydom we all know and love. Not to mention the author of the incomparable essay "Tough Chicks," a state of mind I am diligently working to inculcate in my young niece.

Note the picture on the right. Note the new banner at Cold Fury. I trust you can see where all this is going....


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May 21, 2005

Reflections Before a Wedding

By Robin Burk at 04:37

My husband's niece is getting married tomorrow and we're back on the west coast for the occasion. Spent part of today in San Francisco, at places we've loved over the years.

Walking through a redwood grove and then up among the sunlit eucalyptus trees in a corner of Golden Gate Park, I thought back on the 30 years that Roger and I have been married - 31, actually, next Wednesday - and what Sigrid and Ron will embark on tomorrow. I'm not very eloquent, but here are my wishes for this young couple:

May you find yourselves by accepting the other when that's not easy to do.

May you lose yourselves - or at least your focus on yourself - as you shape a life together.

May you gain wisdom and humility as you accept your own strengths and weaknesses - and those of this person whom you've chosen to commit your life to.

May you find yourselves surprised by joy and even more, by contentment, through the years.


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May 14, 2005

Love: Always

By Guest Author at 04:01

JK: This was posted to the comments section of our Good News Saturdays 2005 post by USMC. As we often do with exceptional blog posts, we're promoting it to full Guest Blog status.

Always
To Deb, by JR/USMC

It seems to me that I have been remiss in several things in my life and am finally coming to realize that as there are some things that should and ought be done as well as those that should not.

When reviewing my life of 28 years wedded to a woman I dearly love I can certainly say my track record as a husband is not without faults.

Surely there are many things in my life that I can look back on with admiration, apprehension, disgust and complacency. It certainly seems that the sunny afternoon of May 13, 1977 in small chapel with friends and family warrants more attention than I have given in the past. That day has forever changed me for better for worse, in sickness in health, for richer for poorer as long as we both shall live till death do us part. I meant the words I said then and they still ring as clear and unfaltering as the day they were spoken.


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